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Monday Coffee * New Brand & a Mea Culpa

Monday, Monday, bah, dah, bah, da da da… So did you sing along as you read? The second portion of that lyric is the depth of my vocabulary until about 2:30 pm each and every Monday. It is not that my Sundays are all that wild. I merely have a mental block regarding Mondays. Perhaps if I was a “morning person” instead of a “night owl.” it might be different, but I will never know. Coffee Roasters of Charleston About a week ago, Gary came home from work and said, “Hey, a co-worker’s husband roasts coffee, and she wants to know…

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Thirty Years – Life Together

Thirty years ago today, Gary and I went on our first date. We have been a couple ever since. Back then marriage was not an option so we were just together and that was enough. We moved in together about ten months later when our leases expired. As time passed, that date, June 18th, became our anniversary. Like all couples, there were a few bumps in the road during our first year, but after that, we settled into coupledom with ease. I hear folks talk about relationships being “hard,” and I understood because I watched couples around us struggle. But…

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Confessions of a Wine Geek

I am not exactly sure when this happened, but it has been confirmed by family and friends that I have become a wine geek, aka wine nerd.  This transformation was not intentional, but like most things I do, I went “all in” so I should not be surprised.  For the record, this confession does not also translate into me being a wine snob.  The term “wine snob” implies a condescension of others about their wine drinking habits. Should I ever become a wine snob, I hope someone will take me behind the barn and give me the proper whooping I deserve. I…

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Dutch Baby with Spiced Apples

Yesterday morning I woke up with a plan. I was making a Dutch Baby with Spiced Apples. Decades ago, there was a restaurant in Skokie, IL that served something like this and I have always wanted to make it. As always I had researched several different recipes (it is also called a German Apple Pancake or a Baked Apple Pancake, Dutch Baby and several other names) and then recreated it with my own twist. Full transparency -> A Kitchen Confession: Before I get to the recipe, I need to confess that the morning started with a bit of excitement. I…

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Obviously Different: A Child & A Wine

All About You: An Adopted Child’s Memoir Imagine looking at yourself in the mirror and seeing that you look nothing like anyone in your family. And when you ask, all you get is lies. Imagine seeing that your parents treat you differently than your sibling and when you call it to their attention they lie. You can see that you are obviously different, but your family and your entire community lies. Side note: Liz and I have been “photographer friends” for several years. When we would run into each other around town or at photographer gatherings, we would chat and visit…

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A Letter To My Dad A Year After His Passing

Sunday (two days ago) was the one year anniversary of my dad’s passing.  He has definitely been on my mind. Dear Dad: Over our lifetime together we had a roller coaster ride of a relationship. As I reflect back on it now, I see that our relationship had seismic shifts roughly every twenty years or so. The middle twenty were the best if you ask me. The first twenty were impossible for both of us as we are just so different. And the last twenty were for you, I missed you, but you needed to move on. The First Twenty You so wanted…

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Curiosity? How I Satiate Need for Knowledge

I never understood why they say curiosity killed the cat.  It seems that curiosity may have killed one cat but taught many others what not to do.  I hope this is true for humans. I am an incredibly curious person.  Along with that, for some reason, I seem to retain the oddest bits of information.  When cable tv first landed in people’s homes back in the 1970s and Discovery Channel was more of a nature channel, I was enthralled.  I watched it non-stop.  The programs were more educational back then, versus today’s more sensationalized entertainment.  I could not get enough. And it paid off…

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So Much to Do, So Little Time

This has been a tough week for me as a blogger.  I had a lot of work to do with my other jobs (wedding and portrait photography and dog sitter) so there was little time left to research and write. Additionally, the editorial calendar I created to help me made it impossible to fill the day’s posts as intended.  Yep, I did not taste any new wines in the past week which means that Wine Wednesday was a bust and while I have 10 posts started for Thoughtful Thursday none of the posts are completely flushed out so they are not…

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Random Thoughts and Other Brain Activity

There are so many thoughts whirling around in my head this week that I should be dizzy.  Some benign and some reactions to the crazy shit happening around us.  So this Thoughtful Thursday is a purge.  I need to release some of these thoughts from my head and decide what, if anything I can act on.  Trust when I say this is random. Talking Heads Blackout After the presidential election in November, I vowed to stop watching cable and broadcast news that present opinion as news and that have pundits screaming over each other to get their point across.  I…

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Welcome to Charleston: Please Proceed with Caution

There is no doubt that I am a Yankee living in the Deep South.   It took some time to acclimate but after 13 years, I think I have it down. Occasionally though, after all this time, I am still surprised when some things happen.  But let me say, I love living in my adopted home of Charleston, SC.  It is a wonderful small town with polite and respectful people, a moderate political climate, an incredible food scene, history galore, great weather and the harbor and Atlantic Ocean as your eastern border. One of my sister’s started the migration of…

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Pet Peeves and other Annoyances

Sorry, I lured you in with an adorable picture of Breezy… this is not about pets.  I have nothing thoughtful to say today. I am in agony.  My hayfever/allergies have really knocked the crap out of me.   The trees and plants are happy as all get out making us mortals absolutely miserable.  When I am miserable I want to whine, and can’t really drink wine because I can’t taste it.  So here I shall whine… with some of my pet peeves. WTF…. Pet Peeves Single ply toilet paper Really? I mean REALLY?  What kind of tight wad are you?  It’s rough…

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HS Reunion, Bleu Appetizer and Pinks Arrive

A Not So Little  – BIG Thing   Go to your high school reunion. When I was doing research about creating this blog, everywhere I read said you have to be real.  Be honest.  Open up your life to your readers.  Give them something to connect to.  Hmmm, not sure about that.  Then I went to my 40th high school reunion last September and it has had a huge impact on me so I wanted to share my experience with you.  I started writing this back in September but it is finally ready to share.   That said, my heart is racing…

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